It was the first time I felt another man inside me. He was sweet and passionate, as well as quiet and strong. It led me to be more confident in myself and what I like sexually. I’m married to a cis-woman (have been for over a decade) and am very happy. I highly recommend exploring your likes and dislikes instead of just assuming. As for that guy at the video store, I never saw him again.'ġ4. I found a small, secluded, resort-type place with a bar while exploring the area. I spent the entire day there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go read by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me.' He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. 'This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came back with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up.
